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I know there are a thousand posts about this, but I have looked through many of them and have not found a clear answer. Myself, friend 1, and friend 2 are trying to play in a lobby together. I can join friend 1 & 2, but friend 1 can't join friend two & vice versa, and neither can join me. I have good internet, but both of them usually have high pings. Is the latency what could be causing this issue and is there anyway around that? We have tried using VPNs & opening ports on routers to no success. This is very aggravating as one of the main reasons I play this game is to play with them.

I'm having the same issue, did you find a solution?

I wonder whether something worked here?

My 2 brothers and I play this game a lot and we can only play together when my older brother hosts a server. If I host a server, my little brother can join, but my older brother gets connection timeout. If my little brother hosts a server I can join but my older brother again gets connection timeout. (My older brother can't join any server, he tried some random servers, he instantly gets connection timeout when clicking on any server).

But if my older brother hosts a server, both of us can join it and it works fine. It is really strange.

If I host an open server, I often see people connecting and after some minutes I get the message that they disconnect again. I guess everyone else than my little brother has problems joining my servers...
We really can't get it to behave differently, we have simply tried every solution that was written in this forum I think.

We are thankful for every help we can get, because we would like to play with other people

Did you ever find a solution? I am having the same problem.